What most i experienced of with the severe "Aqilsickness" each year. Until he is fully settled, i would try to refrain from speaking to him too often. Yes, some children feel better if they speak to their parents regularly on the phone but it’s not healthy if they’re speaking several times a day. I tried avoiding overprepare him during his years in this boarding school.
We checked in as 4 days earlier as we have to continues our journey to the northern for Hannah's 5th years in MRSM Baling... We managed to squeezed a little bit of time helping Aqil reserved the single bed rather than the double decker ..Well...the earlier the better...at least we wont be stuck in the crowd and queues of Cayenne,Audi and Mercedes cars at drop-off time attest, it is a very different crowd who send their children to boarding school nowadays......mmmmmm
Looking at him smiling i am sure the distance and time apart cannnot be seen as putting huge strains on my family. I would say that for most families, who cannot claim perfect relationships, it makes us value our time together more. We keep in contact regularly during especially during the weekends and holidays apart, we don’t miss out on so much....we cherish the time we spend with him..After all i may missed my Aqil so much. But i think that as the world is more global, sooner or later he will leave us.
As i wave farewell, he already happily chatting to his dormmates.There are no tears, no sad cuddles and no long goodbyes, which is all the more remarkable to me this year.... Alhamdulillah
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