asshole

Today i came across an asshole sucker topic while talking to my long long distance friend from Germany, Liza Ramli Tiefensee...We had a super duper long conversation nothing more than rambling about this asshole...Of course someone we knew ....but can be revealing it in my blog...MAMPOS nanti...i began to love this words apparently.

Anyway I think everyone has had an asshole or two in their lives, I know I have had my share. Damn sick!!!But I have learned that one of the worst things you can do when dealing with an asshole is to engage in conflict with them. An asshole will battle to the death to prove that he or she is right, and they will use any means necessary to make you look bad. Patience and self- control is needed to deal with this type of person. The minute you lose your cool, they win. Just stand your ground and be confident. In many ways, trying to have a reasonable conversation with a person like this is a lot like trying to talk a toddler out of a temper tantrum. It's useless and mostly impossible...well an asshole will remain as an asshole.

There is only so much we can do, ultimately everyone is responsible for themselves. We can't always be the fixer, the mediator or the voice of reason. Some people are just assholes, and that's all there is to it. Don't allow yourself to be stepped on, used or taken advantage of. Don't allow someone else to shake your confidence or make you lose your self-respect. Stand firm and do what is best for you. Maybe someday the asshole in your life will realize that it's okay to be wrong, make mistakes and take responsibility for their own lives. Maybe someday they will realize that they don't have to be arrogant, disrespectful and condescending to get their point across.
Or maybe, they will just grow the fuck up.